Gold Coast woman with naturally big boobs details H-cup horrors
Getting along at school is hard enough, but for Queensland woman Anya St James there was another big problem to contend with.
She was just 13 when she first started getting negative attention from her classmates, after her B-cup sized breasts became DDs in the space of a year.
Her bust continued to grow “one cup size each year”, The Sun reports.
While many have expressed envy over her large breasts, the retail worker insists she “doesn’t want them” and would prefer to be smaller so she could fit into nice tops and bras.
Anya, 19, also said she is constantly getting unwanted attention from men, who make crude comments both in person and on dating apps.
“When I was 14 and clearly underage, a group of adult men walked past and said, ‘Woah, you’ve got a nice pair of t**s love’,” Anya said.
“Another made an action like he was trying to motorboat me, it made me feel very uncomfortable and unsafe. I was clearly very young.
“It’s continued into adulthood and now, I find it very hard to date.
“Men constantly say they like me because they are ‘boob guys’ and ‘love big boobs’.
“It made me resent men for a while because it seemed like all they wanted was boobs, boobs, boobs or sex. No one wanted to get to know me or have a relationship.”
At school, Anya, who grew up on the Gold Coast, claimed she was harassed by older students, who told her they liked that she had “bigger boobs than other girls” her age.
The girls at school weren’t sympathetic, branding her a “sl*t” and saying whatever she wore looked “trashy”.
The bullying saw Anya go from being a grade A student to having the “worst attendance in her year” – only going in a quarter of the time.
The constant attention led her to wear oversized jumpers to cover her figure – even on the hottest days.
Another problem Anya faced was finding clothes that would fit and now she has to resort to “grandma bras” because most shops don’t carry her size.
She said: “H-cup is the maximum most stores go. Currently, I’m an HH and fear they won’t stop growing. I don’t know how big they will be by the time I’m 20.”
Exercise is also an issue and during her early teens, Anya had to quit several sports because of the pain it caused her back, shoulders and neck.
Now she finds everyday activities like long walks, running, washing up and vacuuming put strain on her body too.
Anya has considered getting a breast reduction to help her live a normal life without pain and unwanted attention.
She said: “I’m scared about the future because the pain is already intense. I often need to lie down and rest after normal everyday activities and know it will only get worse.
“I have tried to weigh my boobs to understand how heavy they are but it’s not easy, they are the size of cantaloupe melons.”
Anya struggles to date too, as conversations with men turn sexual very quickly.
She said: “People come up to all the time and say, ‘Doesn’t your back hurt?’ and others just walk up and say ‘Boobs’ while pointing at them.
“One person told me, ‘Holy sh*t, you’ve got massive t**s’ and others say, ‘Sorry, I couldn’t help myself staring.’
“It gets really boring and I’m just sick of the abuse. It’s like they believe they are entitled to have sex with me or make comments.”
Anya said there are better ways to flatter a woman or express interest without being overly sexual, which for her is “an immediate turn-off”.
She said: “If I’m honest, I’m a very sexual person and am open with my sexuality, but guys need to remember how to talk to women.
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“If you’re interested in a person, you should get to know them and bear in mind that it’s easy to tell someone’s intentions.
“Ask a nice question or something about the person. I know I would remember the nice person rather than someone who says I have nice boobs.”
This article originally appeared on The Sun and was reproduced with permission
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